Massage and Dating
Massage and Dating
This is going to be a little more complicated than you might think and we are going to cover a lot of territory. First we are going to cover what is expected, what is nice and then what wont work. In the dating world there are many things that seem like little events when you think about them but turn out to be a whole lot more. Physical actions, such as massaging, is a great example.
Massaging Your Date
There are many times and many ways in which this can be an appropriate and much welcomed action. Everyone loves a massage. I have heard and seen that giving a massage to your boyfriend or girlfriend is a great way to get on their good side and perhaps even get them hooked on you. You don’t even need to know that much, just make sure you aren’t hurting them, maybe look up some tips while you’re online.
Massaging your dates feet or shoulders is a great way to go. You can’t really go wrong there. If you are afraid of hurting your date the feet might be better. The shoulder and the neck have a few pressure points and a lot of stress is carried in those areas so if you aren’t careful it could be an uncomfortable massage.
You can also hire a professional. There are many great massage therapists who do outcall or “In Home” massage, if you don’t feel like going out. If you are going to google the person make sure you check out their credentials first. For example, if you live in the Santa Monica region you should just go and google massage therapist and call the first one you see. Go and check out their site. Here is an example of a Santa Monica based massage therapist: Santa Monica Massage Therapy
Dating A Masseuse
There are a lot of people out there, myself included, that have wanted to date a masseuse or someone capable of giving a massage. How is it any different from wanting to date someone good looking, you should like the person you are dating and looks or talents count.
However, massage therapists do get a good deal of this and some can either use it to their advantage or they can avoid you. They know you want a massage so be careful. if you play the field the field may play you back.
This is also their profession, so don’t be surprised when they tell you that they are going out to massage another person. In a way that is a major downfall. One of the things that you love so much about them, something they give to you for your enjoyment isn’t just for you. In that way it’s nothing special so if you’re the jealous type you might want to think twice.
They might also not want to give a massage, it’s their job, they do it all day. On the other hand they may give a massage out of habit. In any case I think we have covered a lot of the options and sides to dating and massaging. Dating is a tricky thing, so think before you act and make sure you try to see both sides and question your motives.