Dating A Friend’s Sister
Dating A Friend’s Sister… Insure Yourself First!
Dating a friend’s sister is a sensitive issue. You must be clear about your intentions before you even think about doing such a thing. Remember, your friendship is at stake. If it doesn’t work, you are gonna get entangled in the biggest mess of your life!
I would suggest dropping the idea of dating a friend’s sister altogether. It’s said that good guys don’t date their friend’s sister. I would say even bad guys don’t do it!
However, if you can’t resist her charm and would like to know her better, you need to first think hard. To help you, here are 5 questions that you should ask yourself before going forward with dating a friend’s sister.
5 Questions To Ask Yourself Before Dating A Friend’s Sister
• Has she told you to keep this a secret from her brother? If yes, then this indicates that her brother (read, your friend) might disapprove of this relationship. He’s likely to get annoyed with you either for dating his sister or hiding the fact from him- worst case scenario- maybe even for both the reasons.
• Will you bump into her every now and then, in case your relationship doesn’t work? If yes, then you’re investing in a pain! You both may feel awkward running into each other at every social gathering or hangout.
• Do you just want to flirt and are not serious? If yes, then please leave this girl alone! In fact, you should drop the very idea of dating a friend’s sister. It’s better to go out on a one night stand than date her. However, don’t think that you can escape from your “wham, bam, thank you ma’am” stunt! Remember, this girl is your friend’s sister. He’d come to know what you did sooner or later. You will lose your best friend and your reputation.
Think About Your Own Little Sister!
If you think that you can get away with dating a friend’s sister, or if you think dating a friend’s sister is no big issue, please think about your own sister. What if one of your friends dated her? Would you approve? Even if you approved, would you be happy with your friend hiding this relationship from you? I bet you’d be furious!
There’s a difference between being friends with someone and dating them. If you just want to be friends with her, that’s alright. Even your friend may approve of her joining your group. However, if you’re interested in an intimate relationship, better watch your step. You’re entering into a high risk dating zone. If it doesn’t work, you may have to live with a lot of guilt and humiliation.
Consider dating a friend’s sister only if you have your bags packed and can fly off to some unknown destination, in case things go wrong!